Before I start telling you what I have learned I must give you some background information...So, a couple of years ago Brenda (my mentor) had be make a list of all the qualities I wanted my future husband to have. I had a list of "must haves", and "these would be nice qualities to have but not a must", and one list with "no way Jose" qualities. Well over the past couple of years a few things on that list has changed, the shallow things have disappeared (expect for the fact he must be taller than me, that's one thing I refuse to change). But what really sticks out in my mind is: He must be a Christian. I really feel like on that line I should have included more detailed information. I have met several boys that I have told me that they are a Christian, and if everyone that said actually was, the world may actually be a better place but since that's not the case, just normally the religion of choice, sadly I need to add more to that line of "musts".
Must #1: I want a man of God, fully seeking and following after God daily, who puts God first in his life, and has a real relationship with him, someone who sets time during his day to spend it with his Lord and Savior.
I don't know what made me come to this conclusion, there was no big WA- LA moment, because it seems quite obvious, but I think if I would have said that before now it would have just been the good "church" answer and not really what I wanted.
Wrapping up my thoughts, I think that the physical attractiveness of a person changes over time but the inner attractiveness doesn't fade especially when that person is focused on Christ and has him at the center of their life. So, as far as I am concerned the most attractive quality of a guy is that he is in love with Jesus.
No comments:
Post a Comment